So Andrew's grandmother had a stroke last Tuesday. She seems to be doing better which is good. She asked Andrew and I if we are going to be having kids. My reply back was we are trying. It hurts because I'd love to be able to make her a great grandmother. I've told her in the past we were dealing with infertility problems but that wasn't the time to tell her that again.
I know so many people around us are waiting for us to have kids. Everyone keeps asking us when we are going to be having kids. I keep asking myself that same question. I don't have answer of when. It stinks infertility just doesn't bug my husband and I, but our families.
Even if you tell them about infertility problems sometimes they still don't get it. I try to explain to people that we have been trying to have kids for five years now then their shocked. Yup doesn't just happen easily for everyone. Hopefully this year I'll finally be able to say we're pregnant and everyone can stop asking.
Birth Story of my Daughter.
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I get asked that question at least once a day, and people have the same reaction, "ohh really? two years? that's crazy, you should see a doctor."
ReplyDeleteOh gee thanks, because I didn't think of that, haven't ever talked to a doctor about that.
People don't realize how little things like that can hurt so bad.
Yeah I tell people we are almost year five of trying and they can't believe it. Hopefully one day I can tell everyone we're pregnant. I hope it happens for you this year. :)
ReplyDeleteHi there! I've never met you, and I just randomly found this blog. I've actually got to the point where people stopped asking me. I started using the line "We're waiting until we get pregnant." Some people catch what I'm saying and leave it alone. Some don't get it and it takes a slightly more blunt answer, but once they do understand they feel a little stupid. ;)
ReplyDeleteGod bless with your journey, it's a HARD one. You're not alone.